Husband gets upset when I say no to sex

2021.10.26 21:28 superthuggin Husband gets upset when I say no to sex

My husband and I have been together for 13 years, since I was 16. So this has been going on for a long time. We have sex ALL THE TIME, and it’s really good sex too. Like probably 3-5 times a week. And still every time I say no it’s met with disappointment or anger immediately.
Last night I came into the room, got naked (mostly to change into pjs, but also I thought he’d enjoy a quick snuggle) and laid in bed with him. Well we started kissing but then it escalated and I said I’m not really in the mood and that it’ll probably be a no tonight, will you be able to handle that? He said no I’ve been horny all day, and then kept trying to get me in the mood. I said ok well I’m gonna say no tonight. He was very upset.. he turned away from me, said I played games with him and that earlier that day I said we would later. He ended up telling me to leave the room or he’s going to leave. I left the room and went out to the couch and he came out picked me up and brought me back to bed. Said I’m not allowed to leave the room and he won’t apologize. Said a lot of mean stuff, like I use sex as a tool. I didn’t say much. I told him he needs to take responsibility and genuinely apologize or I won’t be around him. He said he won’t apologize. And today he’s not speaking to me.
[just to add in during the day he was constantly talking about sex, telling me to constantly touch him (and I did some of it) and he was always trying to touch me, which would be fine, but when it gets to be too much (cuz he won’t stop going on about it) and I say hey dude it’s a bit much let’s chill out a bit, he starts saying like “what’s hard about me being horny” I just wanna do this and this.
My mom (and siblings) is here with us and she’s been helping us through some marital issues (mainly communication).
She says we need to have set schedules so that he can know when to expect sex. He’s an addict (cigs beer gaming sex) and that he needs to be weaned down slowly cuz his addictions are out of control (6 pack a day and at least a pack if not 2 of cigs) She said that I need to phrase it better to not hurt him.
Ask any questions for clarity.
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